Dear Sugar -
I have a HUGE problem. My friends set me up with this guy, and I am starting to really like him! He is really nice, he has a great personality and is a perfect gentleman. We hung out a few times and there was mutual attraction, but I could definitely tell he was nervous around me. I talked to him frequently and we became close. A few weeks went on and we hadn't kissed or anything. Finally I decided I had to do something to make the first move, so I asked him to give me a "goodnight kiss"....
Before I knew it he was slobbering all over my face, there was wayyyyy too much tongue! I almost gagged! I'm more of a "sweet and slow" person, but this kiss was porn-star worthy! The kiss really creeped me out, and I'm a little turned off by it! I could never tell him he is a bad kisser, grrr, and I don't know what to do! Help PLEASE!

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