weird

shes hardly a teenager shes 19, and i think she seems mature, i suppose you do wonder why he wouldn't go for someone closer to his age but they obviously really get on...

We also have to take into consider that she has been acting since she was a child. Showbiz kids always grow up faster than normal, and I hardly think a 19 year-old dating a 30 year-old is creepy.

The Olsen and Lance Armstrong...that was creepy. Milo and Hayden? Not at all

I don't think its creepy! I'm only twenty two, but I would definitely date an older man if the opportunity came up. Guys my age can be so immature and selfish sometimes, an older guy would be a welcome change. Maybe she feels the same?

Creepy as hell

I dont think its creepy at all, besides i dont think they are that serious, they are probably just having fun, they'll brake up in no time.

I think they're really cute.

creepy

I'm 18 and I think they're really cute. Not that I think it's normal for every girl her age to have a boyfriend 10 years older then her, but if they like each other that much, noting can be considered "creepy" in the 21st century.

My definition for creepy age differences between adults is this: Is the older person, biologically speaking, old enough to be the parent of the younger one? If so, that's creepy. And that's the case here. Even a "mature" 19 year old isn't nearly mature enough to relate to someone who was old enough to think about dating prior to her birth.

chatondeneige, he was 11 when she was born. That is nowhere near the age a boy is naturally when he becomes a father. In fact, it would very likely be impossible for him to have been a father at 11. So that theory doesn't hold in this case.

Bottom line, they seem to really like each other and it seems to be a good relationship.

Shes' not even a teenager! Get over it, people.

She's*

I'm gonna go with creepy considering it was pretty obvious they had some sort of relationship they had to hide prior to her turning 18. if the relationship starts off as illegal, its creepshow status in my book. also she looks like she's 15.

^cplast she was dating Stephen from Laguna Beach even after she turned 18 so maybe you are confusing them?

I don't find it creepy at all, she is legally an adult anyway. When I was 18 I dated a man who was 36. I knew exactly what I was doing and so did he he. It was a normal relationship and theirs probably is too.

i don't think they owe anyone an explanation for their relationship and they sure dont have to be traditonal to make others feel comfortable. No one is complaining about Hefner's multiple girlfriends, and they are blatantly having sex with an 80 something year old man to get money and fame from him and no one bats an eyelash! Heck they gave him his own tv show. speidi's relationship is creepier than these two. i just find it ludicrous for people to think they have the right to mandate two adults loving respectful relationship!

She's 19 in Hollywood than means your 21 right

They just creep me out together...no need to defend my opinion.

if she was 25 and he was 36 would it even be an issue?? besides he's so immature for his age, it makes sense

I dated a guy 12 years older than me for 3.5 years! Nothing creepy about it if you are HAPPY and IN LOVE.

It is hardly like he is cradle snatching here.

Eh... I'm a skeeved by guys who need to date girls so much younger than they...

I think the issue here isn't so much the amount of the age difference, but that they are in very different life stages. She's a teenager, he's approaching middle age. As Aphrosette said, it wouldn't be so much of an issue at 25 & 36.

My husband is 6 years younger than I am and I met him when he was 17 and I was 23. He was in high school and I was out of college starting a career. That's exactly why I didn't even CONSIDER him for a date until he was 19 and I was 25 and we were both in similar places. Until then, he was just a cute kid with a crush on me

We're now 42 and 36 and most people don't realize we even have an age gap, but it has presented a few issues - namely that I was ready to start a family LONG before he was.

Not that creepy. I think it has to do with maturity level more than anything.

It feels creepy to me, dunno why, maybe based on personal experience. When I was in HS, my bff dated a guy who's as old as this Milo is. Back then, it was such a 'scandal.'
We were all pretty suspicious of the dude since yea...he's 30, some businessman and we were in high school.
WELL, I did end up getting engaged to a guy 12 years older than I am. But that's when I'm 30.
When I was 18, I can't imagine myself dating a 30-yrs-old...I dunno, same age difference but feel different when you're at certain age. Oh well, jmo.
I'm rambling and need my coffee.

well to be fair he looks 20 something !!

They are cute together. She seems more mature than 19 and he is soo nice looking. Can't blame her at all!

Totally creepy!

I think they started dating when she had just turned 18, so who knows, it could have started even earlier.

Its not surprising, as her parents seem nuts.

I don't think it's creepy, but I'm just surprised that they have lasted so long. It would seem to me that a 19-year-old and a 30-year-old would be looking for and interesting in very different things! They're obviously committed to one another, so it's not really bothering anyone.

It's creepy to a point. I went to high school with a girl who was dating a guy 15 years older (she was 18). That was gross because you could TELL that he was so much older and he looked almost like her dad. EWW!! But here, it's not so bad because neither of them look their age...they both look about 25.

HE LOOKS SO YOUNG AND SHE LOOKS LIKE A THIRTY YEAR OLD SO I THINK THEY LOOK GOOD TOGETHER , AND SINCE WHEN A 10 YEAR DIFFERENCE IN AGE IS GROSS I DIDN'T THAT , UNLESS YOU GUYS ARE BEING BIASED, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE SAID THAT IF IT WAS WISE VERSA, BTW SHE IS NOT A MINOR GET A HOLD YOURSELVES, IT WAS HER GOING AFTER HIM SHE'S SMART SHE'S INTO GUYS WHO ARE AFEW YEARS OLDER THAN HER , WE SHOULD LEARN A THING OR TWO FROM HER, SMART WOMAN.

I don't have a problem with the age cos he seems younger than 30 ..It just that I don't like the couple..he's so cute and she's so tiny.

CREEEPPPYYYY

I think its cute. You can't help who you fall in love with and they fell in love. Age is nothing but a number for them obviously. Good for them.

not creepy at all!!! im 19 and my bf is 32 . I don't think its creepy at all if the relationship isnt just phyiscal. I've beem with my boyfriend for about a year.

I find it creepy when people are clearly at two different stages of life - A 30-something business man and a college student - it seems like he's trying to mold her or something.

But hollywood does make you grow up faster and they are both actors on the same show=similar footing, similar place in life. They seem to suit each other maturity-wise as well. It is a rare exception for me, but I think that this relationship is cute.

honestly... still on the fence about these two... something's not right and I'm not so certain its the age difference that bothers me

Two legal consenting adult adds up to none of my business or concern.

Now Miley Cyrus and her 20-21 year old boyfriend, that is creepy. I couldn't imagine any of my friends dating someone that young. It would be really upsetting.

shes just gross. bottom line gross. nothing special and just looks like a betch.

I think it's creepy but it has nothing to do with age. She just makes my skin crawl, period.

And as for "no one" having a problem with icky Hef and his icky girlfriends, we must know very different "no ones."

It's really no one's business. Obviously they don't find it an issue, since they seem serious about each other. And they've both pretty much stayed out of trouble, which is terribly shocking for Hollywood these days.

It's a little creepy to me, but Milo Ventimiglia really rubs me the wrong way anyhow. Why does he always talk out of the side of his mouth?

I agree with cplast - their relationship started prior to her turning 18. That makes it creepy for me. I don't think I'd mind the age difference as much if it didn't start so early.

I still think it is creepy, but I guess if they are still together then good for them. I just can't imagine having anything in common with someone that much younger or older than me.

this relationship doesn't bother me anymore. i think that since they've been together for so long and they've managed to keep themselves pretty much out of the spotlight for a while - it makes it that much easier to deal with as long as they are happy then that's all that matter.

I think he and Alexis Bledel made a much cuter looking couple.

I don't think this is creepy, I actually find them cute together. As long as they like each other, I don't see why an age difference will stop them.

Fail. I don't like Milo. I heard he was mean to Alexis.

I am 19 and I could never imagine dating someone who is over 30. We just wouldn't be on the same wavelengths. Things that matter to a 19 year old are not really on the mind of a 30 year old. No matter how mature Hayden may be, I still think it's a creepy relationship.