It honestly looks to me like all she did was straighten his hair with a flat iron. Mine always has a bit more luster/shine/brightness when I do this. She is obviously one hell of a mother and would not bleach her kids hair. I say this only in that many musicians would just leave their kids with a nanny and go on the road. She is slugging it out and this would be terribly difficult to do with two small boys in tow. She should be respected for doing what is an amazing job at juggling it all. I only wish she would wear less make up on her off days. It must be exhausting to look that way all the time...she looks gorgeous without make-up - too bad she feels like she has to wear the red lipstick all the time etc...