Dear All,

So this guy and I have stated that we like each other, We both are interested in each other, and we work together in the same building but at work we rarely see each other. My problem is that in the beginning he was giving me lots of attention and hot vibes....and now...about a month later it is all cold vibes. I mean we are not on the same shift at work, and we have gone out a few times but I have been the one to initiate all the meetings (even though he asked me to dinner, it was originally my idea so it seems like he felt obligated?). On facebook , any messages he sends are all about one word answers and ring nothing of the caring and emotion that is seems he once felt.

I need advice, my friends tell me to ditch him in the hopes that I can save whatever sanity and feelings I have. I have been hurt in a previous relationship and he has stated that he has too (including a broken engagement) and we both agreed that we are not looking for a relationship but it just seems like he is loosing interest and though I am trying my best, I even gave him a sexy surprise which he said he liked very much.....I feel deep down that this will not work....and yet again I am heartbroken.....

what should I do? I have decided a dead line of september 8th that if things do not turn around then I will tell him (most likely on facebook) how i feel and that i am sorry but I tried and though this pains me greatly perhaps its for the best that we take a breather......

what do you think?

love always,
jen