I thought I'd try something new. I've recently recieved a question that I am torn on, so I thought I'd pose it to you guys to respond to the writer. I'm really interested to read your thoughts and suggestions for Scared Shawn. Here goes:

Dear Sugar
I'm 20 years old and I live in the projects. I've gotten my girlfriend pregnant ... or so she says. She left for college in September and comes home to see me about once a month. How do I even know this baby is mine? Will I insult her by asking for a paternity test? Additionally, if it is mine, I still feel like a kid myself. Yo - I'm working strong and trying to get my GED at night. If this baby is mine, I'm in no position right now to help support it. I love my girlfriend, but I don't really want to get married yet either. If it's mine, I'd like to ask her to abort it. Can you help me? Scared Shawn