So my boyfriend and I exchanged gifts today. My boyfriend shopped on Christmas Eve (receipt in the bag) and bought me this hideous scarf that only a 90 year old would wear. On the other hand, I kept note of the little things he had wanted and he was super happy. I, on the other hand, felt really unappreciated. It feels like the present was an after thought when I had spent so much time and effort on him. He didn't even both writing me a card and he knows how important those are to me.
I know Christmas isn't about gifts, but I feel it is a true reflection of his feelings towards me. I was trying so hard to fight back my tears but I couldn't. We talked about it a little and he felt bad, which made me feel bad too. What should I do?