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Give to It Hurts

So it says give to it hurts.  One of my blogger friends posted that she is tired of being nice, doing things for and giving to people who don't appreciate it.  That's giving until it hurts.  Some of her other friends wrote back quoting the Bible and saying well keep on being like that, keep on giving  I don't think so.  The Bible doesn't really say let people use you.

During this Christmas season I take joy in giving gifts with love and getting love back.  I do give but not until it hurts.  When people don't appreciate you and slap you in the face.  I call that returning evilness for goodness.  People who constantly ask for things or you give and get nothing no love back are users.  Don't enable users.  You're not doing them or yourself any good.  Let them learn to get and learn to help themselves.  No don't a user enabler.

Here's to a Merry Christmas to you and all your friends and relatives who you give and give you in return material or love or both.

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