Before heading to last night's Glamour Awards, Jennifer Garner spent the afternoon at a NYC playground with Violet in her adorable rugby shirt and pink-eared cap. Beyond talking about her red carpet habits, Jennifer opened up to Glamour about being a goody-goody, feeling awkward and how she sometimes has to point out her hotness to her husband. Here’s more:

- On being a goody-goody: “You totally called me out. I am a bit of a goody-goody. Not that there aren’t times when I think, I was kind of an a****** today. I work in a world in which people are really catered to; someone will come up to me and say, “Is it OK if this person’s makeup is done before yours for the premiere?” Right now Ben’s in Africa studying malaria and visiting slums with a lack of potable water and maternity wards where many women have HIV. So would I really put my energy into worrying that I’m second to get my makeup done? When you think about the bigger picture, it’s hard to not have some perspective.”
- On feeling awkward: “Trust me, I can be awkward. I tend to make big gestures. Ben and I went to a Red Sox game, and when the mascot came up to us, I hugged it. The pictures showed up everywhere. Ben and I were both like, ‘Ooh, too big of a gesture.’ Why did I have to hug the sock? Just say hello like a normal person.”
- On getting Ben's attention: "We’ll be going out to some event, and I’ll have my hair and makeup done and I’ll literally have to say, 'Hey, look at me!' But it works in my favor, too, since most of the time I’m a schlep!"
While we think she meant "schlub" rather than "schlep" it's no secret that Jen likes to keep her casual wear low key. Besides we doubt Ben would overlook how gorgeous she looked last night.
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Bauer-Griffin, Pacific Coast News
She certainly is low, low key and really baggy...I guess she likes to be comfy, but you don't need over-sized clothes to be comfy..she is great though!!
1Violet is so cute!
2jenn looks so pretty as does v
3why does Jen have a coat on and V just a sweater
or is that a jacket..LOL
4I think she is so cute, and it is so nice to hear about someone who doesn't think you need to be a ho to have fun!
5I agree Jillness..sick of hos
6That's a refreshing perspective, and she actually practices what she preaches!
7out with the hoes and in with moms
8good moms
9The more she speaks, the worse it gets. Who says "goody-goody" these days? That was back in the 80s. Must be hard having major thoughts between the contrast of a makeup chair and the state of Africa. Ben must be really proud. Since when are gestures a big deal? The gestures that are scarry is when she looks like Leech smiling really hard at Ben in many photos. She has lost a lot of weight. Sorry but her and Ben are beginning to look like Marc Anthony's cousins, all gaunt and skeletor like? What gives? What's wrong with a healthy weight? Starving themselves does not make them appear more youthful. Quite the opposite at 35. She needs to take tips from JLo who by the way looks more gorgeous than ever pregnant.
10Sugar Bubbles.. Jlo is pregnant
so of course she is gonna be bigger..I thought the
interviewer called her that....
11Violet seems like a happy child
12JLo has always had a glow waaaaay before pregnancy. I was just commenting that JLo looks more beautiful than ever. Ive never seen Garner glowing and soft except while pregnant. She doesn't have soft features to begin with like JLo so when she starves herself at 35 it makes matters worse.
13JLo had a glow more like Jlo was a ho..ha ha sorry I had to do it.
14Such a great perspective. It's nice to see a celebrity who isn't concerned about the small stuff. She knows that in the big spectrum of everything we are concerning ourselves with silly things that don't matter so much. Respect her so much.
15The interviewer asked if she was a goody goody...Jen didn't just come out and say she was. It's funny that you bring up JLo because she seems like the type that would care if someone had their make-up done before her. J Lo may have softer features, but Jenn can't help the ways she's built. Doesn't mean she's starving herself. Way to jump to conculsions. She was always thin up until she was pregnant amd she's always talked about how she eats healthy and cooks meals. I'm sure Ben's weight loss has to do with stress and the hectic schedule he was keeping before his movie came out.
Cute pics.
16JLo is no more ho than Garner is and the term ho is so dated. Garner has hopped from her hubbie's bed then to Vartan's bed then to Affleck's bed in a very short time frame but I guess that makes her more saintly than JLo. Puhlease.
17I LOVE THE WORD HO..IT will never go out of style
who cares about
JLO..this post is about Jen..
18Okay longhorn, you'd made a great attorney. Sorry to jump like I did. I'm not all mean. I'm just saying Garner simply looks pretty with more weight. It softens her features right up and Ben normally never looks this gaunt. He usually carries a little paunch. The stress of promoting his new movie must be sending his body into a tailspin. Sowwy if I sounded so irritating. I'm on my period.
19"Garner has hopped from her hubbie's bed then to Vartan's bed then to Affleck's bed in a very short time frame"
She filed for divorce in 2003, dated Vartan for a few months in 2004, and married Affleck in 2005. Since when is one man a year slutty?
20shes a SWEETHEART!
21How much you wanna bet that these two will be divorced given another couple of years? They're never seen together, and whenever they are, neither one of them look very happy. And having to snap at your husband to get him to notice you? Not a good sign...
22On the contrary, Masqueraded Angel, they are probably the only couple except perhaps the Cox-Arquettes that seem to be real instead of faked and for the cameras. Therefore I give them many years after ANgelina-brad, Holmes-cruise are long gone.
23so cute, Violet!
24the "On getting Ben's attention:" makes me a little sad. i love how involved she is with violet and i'd hate for the fam to break up, but that doesn't sound like a situation i'd personally be happy in. i'm sure she meant it in a diff context...?
25Superbubbles: J-Ho was seen with Marc Anthony ONE WEEK after she split with Affleck. THey were a full fledged couple living together after one month after she split with Ben. Talk about a bed hopper!!!!
26Maybe we all should read the entire article before making judgements about what she said. These quotes are taken out of context and they are misleading. I know from another blog that the interviewer called her a goody goody, she didn't call herself that. Bad going, Popsugar!
27She dumped her husband at the same time she was working on a movie with Ben, remember "Daredevil"?? She has been crushing on Ben ever since and she reportedly slept with Ben while making that movie eventhough she was married and then she moved on to Vartan when Ben was dating JLo. When JLo suspected Ben of cheating, she found that he was writing lots of emails back and forth to Garner and Garner was pouring her heart out to him about her marriage problems. Not something you want to see your boyfriend doing. Garner dumped Vartan when Ben came around shortly after his JLo breakup. Garner is a very sly woman beneath her goody two shoes exterior.
28Bedhopper title can be held by Garner just as much then. I don't buy her innocent story for a second.
29I enjoy seeing these two out and about!
30Regardless of all the uncalled for negative comments, you can't deny how refreshing it is to see a celebrity mother actually spend time with her child. And despite being so thin, I still think she is gorgeous -- I wish I looked as good on my schlubby days.
31victor garbar knows her better than any of us, so I believe what he says about her (from OK):
Garner, says Garber, “is one of a kind. I’ve worked with a lot of people and I’ve been very fortunate in my career to have worked with some great people and she is one of the greats.” Garber played Garner's Alias character Sydney Bristow's on-screen father, Jack Bristow, for five seasons.
Garber must think Jen is great — he officiated her 2005 wedding to Ben Affleck.
As a mother, says Garber, ”I've never seen anything like it. Honestly, that child is so inquisitive and beautiful, so full of life.”
And 17-month-old Violet, says Garber, is well on her way to a Mensa membership. “She’s not even two and her vocabulary is daunting! She talks about animals… she mentions where she’s been and she sings — today she sang, ‘When You Wish Upon a Star,' ” he gushes. “She’s an extraordinary kid.”
As for Bennifer II, Garber believes that “they’re very right for each other” because “neither is threatened by the other. They’re incredibly supportive and they both get what this business requires.”
And despite the fact that Jen was once married to actor Scott Foley, and Ben was once engaged to J.Lo, Garner and Affleck, says Garber, are “magical together.”
32I love these two! So beautiful! And it's cute she can admit she's a goody goody!
33No Jennifer Lopez fan can call anyone else out on bed hoping.
Viloet's adorable.
34I love Jennifer Garner. I think she's always been adorable and it's so much nicer for me to see a celeb mom taking her kids to play or to the market, then seeing one club hopping or losing custody of the child...Sure, Jen may seem boring, but I like boring
Plus they're both good-looking mom and daughter set.
35Jen can stay just the way she is - she's a beautiful breath of fresh air! I love seeing pictures of her and Violet!
And sugarbubbles, different opinions are fine but you seem to have a problem with changing yours to save face. Saying that "Starving themselves does not make them appear more youthful." and " She doesn't have soft features to begin with like JLo so when she starves herself at 35 it makes matters worse." is entirely different than " I'm just saying Garner simply looks pretty with more weight. It softens her features right up." If that's what you really meant, why didn't you say that the first time or even the second.
Maybe you should wait until your period is finished before you make anymore comments. And you know what "is" old People who keep comparing Jennifer to Jlo. Have you noticed that no one brought Jlo up until you did in this thread? You were also the one that brought up Jennifer on the Jlo thread - that's old.
36jennifer garner is a fake, annoying bad actress that is a middle child craving attention and wanting to portray a "good mother" image. think about it. where is ben? she also has a rigorous working schedule. who takes care of violet?..the nanny! and ben does not look happy.
she did cheat on scott f. - she was seen the weekend after their split coming out of vartan's house. and then she dumped vartan after ben split from jlo.
she's not that innocent. it's all an act.
i used to be a fan of hers until her 'goody, goody' annoying facade got really bad. you can like her and believe that all is good but i feel bad for ben.
ben will leave her soon. it's inevitable. he's bored.
37Geez - ohno123, are you and sugarbubbles sisters?
When you use all of your 28 points
to spew negativity and dis Jennifer Garner, you comments don't have much credibility and you won't get far on the Sugar community with that kind of attitude
Try making a positive comment - it's good karma!
38I don't think it should be about who she has or hasn't slept with in the past. She has a good attitude about Hollywood, and she is one of the few celebrity mothers who is constantly with her child. And if you read her quote on being a goody goody, she's not saying that she is. She's saying she can be, in response to the question posed to her. I don't think she's trying to pretend to be innocent. She's just living her life as normally as possible given her line of work.
39Oh, and Violet is so big!
40come on now, are we going back to 2005?? move on!! she's a good mom and i like that! why can't we be happy for all this ppl
41violet's cap is so cute!
42Hi Le E
Jennifer's
candor. Things get taken out of context in interviews, but Jennifer is refreshing and fun... And she glows!
43Isn't it annoying when newbies jump on to spew their few seconds of slander? I
This is great to hear a celeb who's not only concerned about her make up and who's down to earth!
44Jen and Violet are so cute!!!
They look happy!
45Violet's getting cuter everyday.
46Please, people. She's not innocent and neither are you.
I choose to focus forward and on the fact that, despite her crazy schedule, she spends her free moments being active with her daughter. Good for her. (To those of you who say she brings that schedule on herself: yes, but she's doing it to live out a dream of acting on Broadway, and props to her for making a dream happen. It's better for everyone in the family if Mama has seen her dreams through ... I wish I could say I'd done the same!)
With any luck she'll get to sleep for days after her show closes at Christmas. She does look tired.
47At this point, who really cares if her and Scott F. got divorced, she cheated on him. Sure, that's sad. Everyone makes mistakes in life. Should we hate every person who has cheated for the rest of their lives? She seems like a nice person. Her "mom act" doesn't really seem like an act when she is out and about with her daughter constantly. If she has a nanny because she works that makes her a bad mother? I know non-celebs who are professionals that have nannies and I really have never thought that makes them a bad parent. In fact, I hope to continue working after I have children and hope to be making enough to have a nanny.
48The look so cute.
49Violet is everytime i see here smiley. That so great. And Jenn do look a little tired, but that shes out and play with here kid when she just could the nanny do it and sleep a litte, is something that says enough, i think! She is a great mother.
awww i love violet she's so pretty she looks just like mommy... now where's daddy!?
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