The paparazzi may be giving John Mayer  less attention , but he still created a stir by treating a cocktail waitress to a backstage pass and partying the night away with her to finish off his tour in West Palm Beach at the Cruzan Amphitheater Sunday night. He popped champagne and spoke about being sick of the spotlight, saying , "People say I'm the hottest thing, part of a corporate machine. Well, I've been out here for 10 years. I don't want to have the number-one song. I want to be number eight. It's a much better place to be. Because as soon as you become fashion, as soon as you become the flavor of the day, you get crushed. Here's my advice for you. Never fully arrive. Be a work in progress." He also admitted to being drunk during the show and talked cryptically about a recent tearful phone conversation. Sounds charming.