True Love: Your Partner or Your Child? New daddy Joel Madden may be fond of his girlfriend and baby mama, Nicole Richie, but lil Harlow is the love of his life. He said, You know, no matter how many beautiful girls there are in this audience, I must confess that three months ago, I had a little baby girl, and she's my one and only true love." Is your true love your better half or your mini me?