For the past few months I've been having disturbing dreams. They consist of my husband either having "relations" with my sister or some other kind of sexual act. In each dream she gives me a smile that just breaks my heart.
Here are two examples of why I am so upset with my sister. Once, we were attending the same party and my husband decided to stay home and watch football. My sister was planning to bring her boyfriend along, but when I told her that my husband wasn't coming she remarked that it must be because he's jealous of her boyfriend.
Ew, is she kidding me? The worst part is after she said it, she walked away and gave me the same malicious, sassy smile as she did in my dream.
Another time was during Thanksgiving. Our families got together and when it was time to go I couldn't find my husband. I went looking high and low for him and eventually found him alone with my sister. Again, she flashed me that same icky smile.
I've talked to them separatley about their flirting, but nothing has changed. Lately, my sister has been wearing these super tight and short outfits around him. He loves it and she thrives on the attention. I find it disgusting!
I'm tired of having talks with the both of them about this but it seems like my mind can't let it go and that's why I am having subconscious nightmares. Sugar, how am I supposed to cope with this? Sleepless Sula
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