If you can't pull off the blowout look, then the next best thing is the just-rolled-out-of-bed beach wave à la Chrissy Teigen. The tousled texture will have your guy dreaming of beach days . . . with you.
Start by curling your hair with an iron like the Sarah Potempa Beachwaver ($199). And instead of using hair spray, finish the curls with a salt spritz to get the bedhead texture.