For years I've been telling my guy friend that I don't want a relationship with him. He eventually got into another relationship that he never told me about — I had to find out on my own — and I got upset. He still had feelings for me, so when I blew up about the situation, he broke up with her. Now things aren't how they used to be. He isn't showing me that he wants me like he used to, but now I think I might be ready for that relationship. I just don't know if he still wants it like he used to. I feel like I'm trying more, and he's pulling back more, but I don't think he's completely lost interest. What should I do? I don't want to put myself out there if he's not the person he used to be, but I don't want him in another relationship either. How can I get him to show me that person he was before? Or is that lost? Is he still interested in me? Or does he want the other girl back? What should I do?