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Group Therapy: Has Our Platonic Friendship Turned Unhealthy?

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

I think my best friend and I are in love with each other. He is a boy and I am a girl. We have never fooled around and we have been best friends for about 4 1/2 years. We have had what could be considered a very close brother and sister relationship. We are both in our mid 20s and are both currently single. He is a player and loves to date and loves nothing more than having sex with hot women. I am the opposite and haven't had a relationship in years but have been focused on my studies.

Recently, we both revealed that we had thought about dating each other at different points but had ultimately said no. Here is the thing and I know this sounds weird but I am pretty sure he is in love with me. All the qualities he looks for in a woman can basically be found in me. Anyways, our friendship has been rocky lately but has been doing pretty well until these last 2 weeks.

But then she met a guy and started dating him. Find out how he reacted here.

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