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Awkwardness After a Threesome

The Trouble With Three

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Okay, so I'm a 19-year-old semi-virgin (it's complicated), on very good terms with a couple my age. I was originally friends with the guy, but when I met his girlfriend we became quite close too. We frequently joke about sex/have seen each other naked, etc, and have mentioned the possibility of a threesome in the past.

Well, last week, after a couple of drinks, we went back to the guy's dorm room and did it.

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There was no actual intercourse between me and the guy (although there was some oral, the first time for me), at the girlfriend's request, which was totally understandable, as well as some interaction between myself and the girl. It was predominantly the guy and the girl, though — which didn't bother me as they are the actual couple. We agreed that it had been a fun evening and went our separate ways.

Now things are fine with the guy (no burning passion or awkwardness — just the same friendship we always had), but the girl and I are having some tension. The guy has evidently had trouble "performing" since then, so she blames me for the whole incident (despite the fact that it was her idea and she specifically wanted to include me), and has decided that he needs to sleep at her place every night (she goes to university about an hour away), I suspect to keep him away from me. I have absolutely no designs on him. I have also heard that she has been insulting me behind my back.

I don't want to lose either of them as a friend — especially the guy who is one of my best friends — and am afraid that her strange behavior will ruin things. We can't take back what happened — is there any way to change the outcome?

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