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Group Therapy: My Boyfriend Says I'm Not Pretty

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About a year ago I got plastic surgery because I was really unhappy with the way my nose looked. A lot of this unhappiness came when my boyfriend told me that he was embarrassed to introduce me to his friends because of the way my nose looked. That really burned! . . . I was really heartbroken, and I got rhinoplasty.

Since I got plastic surgery, I felt like a new woman. I was confident, and I thought I looked great. Last night my boyfriend mentioned that he thinks I need to get a second opinion and perhaps a second operation. He also told me he doesn't think I'm pretty.

I'm seriously crushed right now . . . I don't know what to do. I feel terrible!! I can't stop comparing myself to other women in his life and wondering what he thinks of them. I don't want to be looked at touched or talked to. I really, really, REALLY love him, and I was so happy with him until last night.

It seems like such a small thing to break up with someone over (so he doesn't think I'm pretty big deal right?) but it still hurts, and I have no idea how to get over it.

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