For the past six months, you and your sister have been battling it out over a particularly terrible weekend that you spent visiting her. Though at the time the argument about her rude behavior wasn’t a huge issue, it’s managed to come up time and time again since then. In an attempt to finally make the peace, you invite her to a dinner party you’re hosting, which she accepts. Would it be worse if she . . .
This: Manages to make it on time, but then proceeds to rehash the details of your dispute for all of your friends to hear? You know it's a big deal for her to have come, but she just won’t let it go and it only serves to make you angry.
That: Is a complete no-show, and won’t answer her cell when you call? The party’s fine without her, but you feel completely hurt and let down.