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"I'm Married to a Man, but I'm Attracted to Women"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community. Add your advice in the comments!

I've been happily married for a year, been with my husband for 3 years total. He's always known that I'm bisexual and it hasn't been an issue for years. I've been able to kind of ignore it so it's been a non-issue with him.

But for the last couple months all I can think about is women, and being with another woman. I'm worried that this is going to cause an issue between my husband and I, and worried about how long I can keep this from him. I feel horribly guilty because I feel like since I honestly love my husband I shouldn't have such strong feelings and urges. I just don't know what to do.

Do I tell him or try to struggle through with a secret that's eating away at me?

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