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Blow Job Tips From Sexologist Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez

8 Tips That Will Drive Him Wild

We're excited to welcome clinical sexologist and author of A Little Bit Kinky Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez for a week of guest blogging.

OK ladies, wondering how you can drive him nuts? A rock-your-world blow job will have him turned on and tuned up.

Warning: NSFW, but we are talking about blow jobs after all. To see the tips just read more.

  1. It is ultraimportant that you are enthusiastic. If you show him you love it, it will be an incredible turn-on for him.
  2. No teeth, please!
  3. Don't forget your tongue. Lots of tongue action is key, especially around the ridge at the tip and on the underside of the penis, which is ultrasensitive.
  4. Keep it slick. Don't be shy about saliva dripping out of your mouth and all over the place.
  5. Handle him well. Grip one hand firmly around the base of the penis and move it up and down, in time with the motion of your mouth.
  6. Twist your hand around. But don't just go up and down, up and down. Move your hand in all directions — kind of like an "Indian burn" without the burn.
  7. Be ambitious. Cover the whole penis with you mouth, and the deeper you can take it in, the better.
  8. And, last but not least, swallow if you can! Check out my book, A Little Bit Kinky, for a shake recipe that makes a man's cum taste better.
  9. Dr. Natasha Janina Valdez is one of the nation’s leading sex experts and a certified clinical sexologist with a doctorate in human sexuality. Her new book A Little Bit Kinky is an imaginative and open-minded guide to exploring new possibilities in the bedroom and healthier relationships. Visit her online at drnatasha.com.

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AlyCarolina AlyCarolina 6 years
I have never tried swallowing for some reason I avoid that once i know he is really turned on i just hope on top... Another thing that at least my guy lovesssssssssssss is just putting lotion and massage it... I did this once and now all he says it ''hey baby can i have a dick massage'' might sound crazy but its true. P.s I agree with all the people that said that this is nothing that we did not know.
AlyCarolina AlyCarolina 6 years
I have never tried swallowing for some reason I avoid that once i know he is really turned on i just hope on top... Another thing that at least my guy lovesssssssssssss is just putting lotion and massage it... I did this once and now all he says it ''hey baby can i have a dick massage'' might sound crazy but its true. P.s I agree with all the people that said that this is nothing that we did not know.
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
I like swallowing because is requires the least clean-up afterward. This is really gross, but... I used to swallow my toothpaste sometimes when I was little, so swallowing cum doesn't bother me. I'm interested in this 'shake' to make his cum taste better... doesn't it figure, the only useful bit of info in this book, and she's holding out on us.
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
I like swallowing because is requires the least clean-up afterward. This is really gross, but... I used to swallow my toothpaste sometimes when I was little, so swallowing cum doesn't bother me.I'm interested in this 'shake' to make his cum taste better... doesn't it figure, the only useful bit of info in this book, and she's holding out on us.
fly-fishing-fool fly-fishing-fool 6 years
Ladies, as mentioned swallowing isn't the key, in fact it's a huge waste, much hotter squirting at your favorite "target"...........
kea718 kea718 6 years
I hate giving head,,, but I'm incredibly good at it. I mean to the point where I've overheard convo's where all i heard was a guy raving about how good I am. I may not like doing it but I happen to be very skilled at it. Other tips, don't ignore the balls.. cup them, lick them (or very gently suck on them), I know some girls/guys won't mess with balls which is understandable, but almost every guy I've been with likes it. Breath thru your nose... not aonly will it keep you from losing your breath and choking but it's also the first step in deep throating.
remember-aurora remember-aurora 6 years
I've knew all of this already. But I mostly came here to say that when I saw the title "8 Tips That Will Drive Him Wild," I fully anticipated a long drawn out Cosmo-esque list of dumb stuff like putting your finger in his butt or dare I say, building a sundae on his junk. Thanks for giving real advice for the ladies who don't know, and not made up stuff that looks good on paper but no one should ever do.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 6 years
No swallowing. I have, not my thing. I've been knowing this! lol.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 6 years
No swallowing. I have, not my thing. I've been knowing this! lol.
HoneyBrown1976 HoneyBrown1976 6 years
No, I don't swallow. My mouth's not a sperm receptacle. I also agree with Anonymous #2.
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