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Boyfriend Acting Distant After Having Baby

Group Therapy: My Boyfriend's Grown Distant Since Baby Came

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Well me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years and we have a two-month-old baby together. Ever since I had my baby, my boyfriend seems to be spaced out. He doesn't seem to want to spend alone time with me or talk to me like he used to.

We were each other's best friends before our baby came along. It feels like he would rather be with his friends all the time. I also keep on finding out new things he has done behind my back. He hides stuff and it makes me even more curious about just how serious he thinks our relationship is.

It means a lot to me, it feels like I'm losing my best friend. I text him a lot and he texts back but when I want to talk on the phone he will make an excuse why he can't. Or when we are on the phone he will say "I got to go" or take a shower or something like that.  Please someone tell me what to do! Should I give him some space for a while or what?

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