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"I Don't Want to Give Up on My Crumbling Relationship"

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OK, I really need to vent. There are so many things I wish I could tell my boyfriend but I'm so scared that I'll lose him. All of a sudden he's this totally new person. The guy I fell in love with was sweet, kind, caring, he was just the best. Now he treats me like crap. I won't give up on this relationship because I know he's the one, but it gets so hard.

He went from a totally amazing boyfriend to a stranger. He never picks up my phone calls and this is a long distance relationship so he should be calling me daily. It made me cry for days to know that he can go weeks without hearing my voice and just acknowledging me. He never gave me a present like ever. I hate to say it, but I'm not sure if I'm happy in this relationship. The only thing I'm holding on to is that my feelings haven't changed nor will they ever change.

Almost all my friends have been getting in the way too. They are all telling me he's this and that and I could care less about what they feel, but sometimes their voices get to me. None of my friends support this relationship because they say that my boyfriend's treating me like crap and that I deserve better. But I know my boyfriend and it's his first relationship so he has no idea what he's doing.

Sometimes I want to slap him and tell him that I'm in so much pain, but he's so clueless and immature that not even that will make him see how much I'm hurting. Our first date was amazing, but on the second date it's like he's a totally new person. He didn't even talk to me when we were eating. He didn't give me any hugs and he only told me that he loved me at the very end of the date right before I got out of the car like it meant nothing to him. The annoying thing is that he's so immature. I really hope I'm not being demanding, but I just want to know that he cares about this relationship. That's all I want.

He doesn't understand that a relationship is something that you're suppose to work at. I need to figure us out now. I'm so confused as to why he changed all of a sudden and never talks to me. I'm hurting so much inside and I have no idea how to tell him all of this without it being too much. Does someone have a solution, because I obviously don't.

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