I've been dating this guy for almost 2 weeks now and I really like him. However, I've noticed him flirting with my friend Megan (he's bisexual) and it's been bothering me. The other day, I asked him about the flirting and he was really evasive. He basically told me that it wasn't something he wanted to answer. I was so upset, what the heck? Does he like me or does he like her? My friends think I should break up with him. They actually think I should date his best friend who I guess likes me. They think he would treat me better. But I really like my boyfriend. I need some advice, I am so confused and a little hurt about the whole thing. Hurt Henri
Dear Hurt Henri
I don't know why he can't tell you how he's feeling, but it's a big red flag and I am inclined to tell you that this will only lead you into a relationship filled with heartache. It's only been 2 weeks so I think you should try and talk to him one more time about the flirting incident and see how he reacts. If he's not going to be straight with you, then break up with him. You don't have that much invested yet. Your friends are right about him, but they aren't right about telling you to date his best friend! That is so weird that he even likes you. I am sure your boyfriend wouldn't be too pleased. It's a little close for comfort. If in time it leads to that, so be it, but certainly not right away. You don't want to go there.