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Boyfriend Wants to Spend Christmas Apart

"My Boyfriend Wants to Disappear"

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My boyfriend has two weeks off during Christmas and wants to disappear without telling me where he is going or what he is doing or having any contact with me during that time. Also this is our first Christmas together, we are having a baby, and he never even offered to spend a few days with me.

Additionally, he does this disappearing act for a few days every now and again. It bothers me because it's usually without warning or explanation. We don't live together and we are at work all day. I'm really confused. I feel extremely hurt and disrespected. Am I missing something? Why would he want this?

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