Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, and we have lived together for almost a year. We're both in our early 20s, and he prefers to masturbate than have sex with me. Masturbation doesn't bother me at all, but what bothers me is that he will masturbate every day and every time I'm not home or am not paying attention, and the big problem is we have sex every three weeks or even every two months.
It makes me feel very insecure as well as very unwanted. He knows this as well — I have told him about my feelings — but every time I try to bring it up, he becomes very angry. I have even offered to watch porn with him, and he just goes around the idea. This is really making our relationship difficult to handle; we can't even connect anymore. And I know he's not cheating, but I just don't know how to fix this. He supports me and my ideas and feelings with everything else, but just not with sex.