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Group Therapy: How Do I Let a Guy Down Gently?

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

Hey!  I need your guys' advice!!  I went on two dates with this one guy who is very sweet but I'm just really not interested in him. 

The first date was great (but I did end up getting kind of drunk so judgment not so great) but the second date . . . I felt weird around him.  Some things he did were just a big turnoff and I just really don't want want to go out with him anymore and the thought of doing anything sexual with him makes me cringe (it's not about appearance — he's nice looking!). 

Long story short, how do I tell this guy no more, when he's already asked me out for date three?  I want to be kind but firm.

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