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Buying Engagement Ring With Girlfriend

Group Therapy: He Bought My Engagement Ring in Front of Me

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Me and my bf have been together for 3 years. We have lived together for 2 years and have a 10 month old together. We are pretty serious, I love him very much. Most of our friends are all in commited relationships too, most of them are engaged and married.

So this weekend, we were talking about our friends that are getting married this weekend. Later we went to the mall and he decided to go to the jewelry store and look at rings. Once we were there, he wanted me to pick the one I wanted! I guess that is OK, I did it, but later on I thought, do other people do this together? Pick out their engagement rings?

I feel kind of lame. I didn't force him to get it but we were there and he purchased it. I still haven't got the ring, since it's getting customized and sized.

I feel good, because we are taking it another step but I feel weird because I was there and from what I know, men do the engagement shopping on their own.

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