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Can a Cheater Change?

"Can a Cheater Change?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

It's not that I don't provide any emotional support for him. I happen to be extremely supportive, and I shower him with love and attention. I also try to be what he wants at bed. I never tell him about his flaws and always compliment him on his looks, his career and his achievements. Yet still, he cheated on me, emotionally and physically, with a woman at work.

Now he wants me back. He says he is sorry and he made a mistake, a kind of mistake that all men make at some point of their lives and he wants me to forgive him for that. He says he deserves one more chance and he deserves forgiveness. He says he is willing to take therapy, take a changing time and really change.

Can a cheater ever change? Or once a cheater, always a cheater?

Honestly, the process of my finding out about his affair was so painful that I would never want to experience such thing ever again.

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