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Can You Juggle Dating Multiple Men?

Are two better than one? Not always when it comes to dating. A friend of mine currently finds herself going out with two different guys, and she's not sure if and when she should let one of them go.

The first guy is sweet, but things are moving relatively slowly, while bachelor number two is undeniably hot and interested in getting to know her more. I told her that she was lucky to have multiple intriguing prospects, but she's having a tough time figuring out which man deserves more of her attention.

Are you good at dating more than one person, or would you rather give one guy all your attention even if it means letting other people pass you by?

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Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
I juggled three once (no sex) and it was nice, but not as nice as having one guy to concentrate on and build a relationship. I don't meet men I'm attracted to often; it's rare for me to even have two to decide between. "That's what dating is about - at least until you have "the talk"." Bluebell I agree. When I'm ready to get serious, I always ask a guy if he's dating or fucking anyone. If you fall for a guy without having 'the talk,' you're setting yourself up for trouble.
Bettye-Wayne Bettye-Wayne 6 years
I juggled three once (no sex) and it was nice, but not as nice as having one guy to concentrate on and build a relationship. I don't meet men I'm attracted to often; it's rare for me to even have two to decide between."That's what dating is about - at least until you have "the talk"." Bluebell I agree. When I'm ready to get serious, I always ask a guy if he's dating or fucking anyone. If you fall for a guy without having 'the talk,' you're setting yourself up for trouble.
kurniakasih kurniakasih 6 years
I have before. Actually when I started dating my hub, I was already dating 2 other guys. Of course, I ended up w/ my hub LOL.
skigurl skigurl 6 years
i've never done thisi've just never been in a position where i've met more than one guy at a timebut i'm also the kind of person who doesn't seek someone out if i'm with or working on someone else
skigurl skigurl 6 years
i've never done this i've just never been in a position where i've met more than one guy at a time but i'm also the kind of person who doesn't seek someone out if i'm with or working on someone else
Deidre Deidre 6 years
Agree with Genesis...I had no problem dating multiple guys, but you have to make sure that all parties involved know that you're just casually dating.
genesisrocks genesisrocks 6 years
As long as it's casual and honest. Like if you've been seeing one of them for a few months it is definitely time to stop seeing other people or to just let the man go.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 6 years
agreed Venus.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 6 years
agreed Venus.
Venus1 Venus1 6 years
I don't see a problem providing you don't let one think they are the "one".
jazzytummy jazzytummy 6 years
Date yes, sleep with, no.
jazzytummy jazzytummy 6 years
Date yes, sleep with, no.
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 6 years
I have dated two people in the past but that's just because I met two great guys around the same time who asked me out. I went on a few dates with both and picked one. I would never however long term date any two people that's just too much work. Who do I look like Alfie, lol.
betty-kraker betty-kraker 6 years
not at all ill take and keep the one i got
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 6 years
Yes, I have. Good times, good times. ;)
bluebellknoll bluebellknoll 6 years
That's what dating is about - at least until you have "the talk".
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