I started a new job about three months ago and I can't tell if my co-worker is hitting on me or not. Either way, the whole thing makes me really uncomfortable because I'm married. One day I walked into his office, and he told me how pretty I looked. He has a really hot accent, and of course, I was flattered — turned red and everything — then walked away.
Another day, he had to show me how to do something on my computer and he sat superclose to me. He's a very subtle flirt, but it's happening more and more often. Why does he do this? He knows I'm married, so is he just friendly? Am I reading way too much into this? What are a guy's motives to subtly hit on a married woman?
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