I am 14 years old, and I haven't had sex with my boyfriend ... but things are starting to get really hot and heavy between us physically.
My last period was June 29th and I took a pregnancy test yesterday which came out negative. I've had stomach cramps and most symptoms for periods but I'm still worried. Does one missed period mean you're definitely pregnant? Speculating Sophia
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Dear Speculating Sophia
Sweetie. I am so sorry that you are going through this. You must be scared. The odds of you getting pregnant aren't that high, but there definitely is a risk. Becoming pregnant usually means having actual vaginal intercourse with a semen ejaculation. Is there something that you aren't telling me?
Naked rubbing isn't going to get you pregnant - but if you are nervous, what I am guessing is that you are playing a little game of "in and out." This game CAN get you pregnant and it also means that you are indeed having sex (sorry, but it counts).
Stop playing games. Either do it and protect yourself or quit fooling around with destiny. When a man becomes sexually aroused, the pre-ejaculation fluid at the end of his penis contains sperm. Although it doesn't have a high sperm content in it like semen does, it may have enough to get you pregnant.
It also may contain the same STD's as semen. This puts you at risk for a multitude of diseases. Bottom line is that you are playing with fire. Talk to your boyfriend about a decision to have sex or to abstain. Please protect yourselves, you aren't a little girl anymore.