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DEARSUGAR NEEDS YOUR HELP: How Do Women Peak Without Penetration?

DEARSUGAR and Discouraged Dara need your help. She and her fiancé are saving themselves for marriage but they would still like to have satisfying foreplay until the big day. The problem is that they are getting increasingly frustrated that she is unable to achieve orgasm.

I know you gals love this juicy sex topic so help her out. What are some ways they can learn to please her? This couple is under enough pressure already with a wedding in the near future. Sex should be fun and all about experimentation in its early stages. Share your tricks with her.

Dear Sugar
My boyfriend and I are waiting until we are married to have actual intercourse, but we would still like to please each other in bed. We are able to make him climax relatively easily, however, I still have never been able to reach orgasm.

I am a virgin and I don't experiment on myself. It's not that I am ashamed to, I guess I just never felt comfortable enough with my body. My fiancé loves me and I can tell that he is beginning to get upset trying to do anything he can to give me my first orgasm.

We have never performed oral sex on each other since I feel that it constitutes as sex. What are your feelings on this? Also, is it possible that I just can't climax without penetration? Am I a lost cause until we get married or is there some other way that we haven't thought of? Discouraged Dara

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