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DEARSUGAR and Ravishing Raven need your help. She is going to be at an event with a woman who is trying to steal her boyfriend from her and she needs to look killer yet classy. Ladies, how can we help her out here? I know you've all got a few tricks up your sleeve to help keep your man's eyes on you all night long.

Dear Sugar
This weekend I am going to be seeing my boyfriend's ex at an upcoming event. Since we have been together, she has tried her darndest to break us up. Thank goodness it it hasn't worked in the slightest, but nevertheless, I am not looking forward to this next encounter.

I really want to appear confident and classy when I see her, but I confess that I am pretty nervous about it. Do you have any suggestions how I can come off looking classy and elegant but at the same time radiate my sexuality? I am not afraid of even looking a little bit intimidating.

I am planning on using the 'kill her with kindness' approach, but I don't want to come off as insecure, fake, or jealous in any way. I think that feeling and looking gorgeous is going to give me the confidence that I need. What should I say to her? Please help me pull this off. Ravishing Raven

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