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DEARSUGAR NEEDS YOUR HELP: My Ex's Roommate is Pimpin'

DEARSUGAR NEEDS YOUR HELP: My Ex's Roommate is Pimpin'

DEARSUGAR and In Love Lourdes need your help. She's really into her new guy, but he lives with her ex. She wants to be with him, but she also wants to do the right thing and come clean to her ex. What can she say to him to soften the blow?

Dear Sugar
I have a major crush on this guy, except the situation is a little bit sticky. He happens to be the roommate of a guy that I used to date and we just broke up. I was actually the one to end things with him and I know that he's still not over me.

I really hate that he's in the way of this, except I wouldn't even know him if it weren't for my ex. Really I'm not even asking if it's OK to like him, because he's so damn cute and funny that it's too late -- I'm already smitten.

Is there any way that I can talk to him about this so that I do the mature thing instead of going behind his back with his roommate. I don't want him to see me as some hoochie that sleeps around with groups of friends. I have never felt this way about anyone. I love him and I don't want my ex, who I barely had feelings for to ruin anything. In Love Lourdes

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