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DEARSUGAR Needs Your Help: We've All Got A Crush On The B.M.O.C

DEARSUGAR Needs Your Help: We've All Got A Crush On The B.M.O.C

DEARSUGAR and Stuck Stella need your help. I think this may actually trump a love triangle. Has anyone ever been in this position before that can offer some advice?

Dear Sugar
My friend has a huge crush on a guy that's in one of our grad school classes...But so does my other girlfriend. I feel totally caught in the middle, but what's worse is that I've got my own little fire started for this guy. He's unbelievably sweet, smart, buff and gorgeous; it's kind of hard not to be attracted to him. I don't know what to do. Stuck Stella

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BlondeSugar BlondeSugar 10 years
Sweet, smart, buff AND gorgeous? Not possible. What's wrong with him?
Nicadema Nicadema 10 years
Just because you all like him, doesn't mean you all have a chance of dating him. If he wants to date one of you, he will make his move and the other girls should accept it. Maybe he doesn't want to date any of you anyway, so the point may be moot. The only other option is for you all to find new and different crushes.
lickety-split lickety-split 10 years
he's prolly gay. go back to studying.
Kratsina Kratsina 10 years
How about treating this great guy like a person instead of meat and let him choose whom he likes? I mean, eventually he's going to show an interest in one of you over the others, if he really is a sweet guy and not a jerk who will play all three of you, and the other two get to act like adults and step off.
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