I'm only 18. My ex broke up with me in March. Shortly after I had a miscarriage without even knowing I was pregnant. I was on birth control too, so don't judge. I didn't tell my ex when it happened, but I did try to talk to him. I was in a very vulnerable state but he pushed me away and ignored me. Said hurtful things, etc. So I kept it from him.
A couple weeks later, he found out somehow (I only told very few people). He texted me angrily that I never told him and said it was "his child too." I understand why he was mad, too. That was the only sympathy I got out of the him. The conversation ended shortly. We talked a few times after that, but he never showed any compassion for what happened. I suppose since it isn't his body he doesn't really understand the severity. It really hit home for me. I'm not really sure what I expect out of this either. I'm just upset that he treated me the way he did and still continues to ignore the fact that it actually did happen — boyfriend or ex, he should still give a sh*t.