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Dear Poll: Do you Kiss on the First Date?

Whether you're on a one on one date or a group date, usually the night will end with a good night kiss. I personally think a kiss is extremely telling about a person's character and soul, but some women don't think kissing on the first date is a good idea. So what I want to know is, do you typically kiss on a first date?


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rellicDragon rellicDragon 8 years
depends on the date ... :) but I am going out on a date (with a man I met online) soon ... wondering if I should just go with the flow ... or go with a plan in my head ...
heartbroken1017 heartbroken1017 8 years
No kissing on the first date..i think starting out with a hug is good.
calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
agreed with lexo. kiss on the lips on the first date is just plain slutty
the-makeup-blogette the-makeup-blogette 9 years
i would kiss, if the chemistry is there!
tokenguy tokenguy 9 years
Like most others, it's down to chemistry. Unless there's absolutely zero chemistry, I'll almost always give a girl a kiss on the cheek, that's just a nice courteous thing to do I think. I've never done a full on make out on the first date, but if the chemistry is there, a nice kiss on the lips, preferably lasting more than a few seconds, is certainly welcome! I'd probably do a make out if there was massive chemistry and I was sure she was into it, so not against it, just never done it.
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
I love all the comments on and yea I've done it! Because honestly haven't we truthful!!
Jeannie_CK Jeannie_CK 9 years
If the attraction was good then yes. If it was a sort of date you agreed to go on and not to expect something more out of it then I probably would just say good night afterwards.
Debbie-Dee Debbie-Dee 9 years
honestly, if the chemistry is there, i'll kiss a dude within a few hours of meeting him....not deep, tongue in throat, kissing, but just simple quick stuff---to show affection.kinda flirty. if i'm on a date hanging out and everything went ok, then yeah, that's cool too....again, it's if I'M feeling it completely....i could care less if the dude is really into me...if I feel the sparks there, then it's on and poppin!....he ain't getting much else, besos!
sexyeyes sexyeyes 9 years
My b/f and I kissed in our first date... Three and a half years later we're still together and making plans to get marry :woohoo:
Pink_Lipstick Pink_Lipstick 9 years
I kiss on the first date, but only on the cheek. I can tell if there's chemistry without kissing on the mouth. I'm engaged now though, so no more first dates for me!
auddie auddie 9 years
If it feels right definitely! No point in going out again if the kiss is awful.
cravinsugar cravinsugar 9 years
Haha, I just remembered...I was single, after a bad break up my 2nd semester freshman yaer of college, and I went out with random guys--only first dates, just so I could kiss, because I liked kissing soo much haha. ANd serilusy, it was only kissing, believe it or not. I never saw a single one of the guys more than once-i just used them and dropped them haha
Misskastar Misskastar 9 years
Totally depends. If the timing is right and it just happens then I go for it, especially if I really like him. If not, then I wait. I don't think I have a "rule" about kissing on the first date, other stuff...yeah.
ninjastarlett ninjastarlett 9 years
why not? if there's not chemistry on a first date, then when will there be??
Realblonde Realblonde 9 years
I only kiss on a first date if the person has nice teeth. If they have rotten teeth and bad breath, there is no second date!
designergirl designergirl 9 years
If I want to, why not?
melda melda 9 years
yea and I did even more than that
Hope5 Hope5 9 years
Yes, but we're married now :)
pink_magnetism pink_magnetism 9 years
If I like the guy, then definately. I think it's a good way to tell if you want to see someone again. I went on date with a guy earlier in the year, and we didn't have a bad time out, but when he was driving me home, I was thinking "I hope he doesn't try to kiss me"- so I knew I wasn't interested. The guy I'm seeing now, when he was driving me home from the first date, I did want to kiss him- so I knew I wanted to keep seeing him.
rubialala rubialala 9 years
Not to sound super slutty, but I've done way more than kiss on the first date. It all depends on how you click with the guy.
Marci Marci 9 years
It all depends. I'm not big on 'the rules' or playing hard to get, so if the chemistry is there and everything is right, then yes. But if it's not, then no. And if it's not there on the first date, it probably won't be there on the second date either! :D
cravinsugar cravinsugar 9 years
If that first kiss is lacking in anyway, I don't go on a second date. a kiss isn't sex...there is nothing wrong with it. That being said, after that first kiss, I am dating the guy 5 years later, and we have the best relationship of anyone i know...*knock on wood* "This kiss, this kiss-unstoppable"
jenzterama jenzterama 9 years
usually no, but if the vibe is right then maybe :)
JennaV JennaV 9 years
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