In order to find the right guy, you often have to weed out a few bad seeds. And to make matters worse, sometimes you think you’ve found an absolutely great guy, but as time goes on, you realize that he’s completely afraid of commitment. Dating a commitment phobe can be very confusing — he’s great and he really loves you, but he doesn’t want the same future you do. Unless you’re willing to wait around forever, you might just be setting yourself up for heartache. So ladies, let's see how many of us have had to go through this before. Have you ever dated a commitment phobe?