Boundaries. Boundaries. Boundaries. We use the word a lot; we know having boundaries is good and healthy; and we usually feel pretty guilty or conflicted when asserting or protecting our boundaries. If we're honest, we also can feel pretty darn conflicted when somebody communicates their own boundary needs to us.
I found a great quiz that offers a snapshot of your boundary intelligence. After your score is tallied, a brief summary of your 'level' appears, along with some helpful hints.
To read an excellent, brief article about one woman's experiment changing her boundaries with a friend after learning how women “tend to confuse the absence of boundaries with real intimacy”, click here.
Go here for the test, and hurry back to submit your score! Conversations and opinions encouraged, as ever.