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DearSugar Needs Your Help: Why Isn't He Calling?

DearSugar Needs Your Help: Why Isn't He Calling?

DearSugar and Bewildered Bethany need your help. I think we have all been there: the guy you have a crush on doesn't call even through he acts like he will. Grr, it's utterly the most frustrating thing ever, so do any of you have some words of wisdom for so many women who are in the same boat as Bethany?

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I just recently became single after a super serious three year relationship. I was at a bar, talking with a really cute and very nice guy, we were totally hitting it off and ended up going back to my place. We didn't have sex, but we did mess around.

The next morning I was worried it would be weird, but he gave me the most amazing kiss and we hooked up again sober. Then, as I drove him home, we were talking and having a pretty good time. When I stopped the car at his house he asked me when I was going to be free because he said he HAD to take me out again on a real date. I told him I was free anytime before I left for a trip on Thursday, he put his hand on my leg, told me he would call, and gave me the most amazing kiss before getting out of the car. Well, I leave for my trip tomorrow and I have heard NOTHING.

Why would someone push the idea of a date so hard if he had no intention of calling in the first place? What's the point of the act?


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