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DearSugar Needs your Help: How Can I Get Past This?

DearSugar and Regretful Regina need your help. Things got a little heated in the bedroom after a few too many and now Regina can't figure out how to get past her weekend sexcapade. Can you offer any advice for her?

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I single-handedly have gotten myself into a pickle. I recently graduated from college and moved back home. An old high school friend of mine had a huge party last week as a welcome home for everyone. We were all really excited to see each other again and it was a blast to run into old faces and old crushes.

I'm not sure if it was because it had been so long since everyone had seen each other or if we were just excited to be done with school, but the drinks were flowing and everyone was really letting loose. Two guys that I used to hook up with were there and after a night chalk filled with intense flirting, the three of us ended up in one of the bedrooms, all hooking up. In the moment, I was totally into it, they made me feel amazingly sexy but I had never had a threesome before. I have always been very open with my sexuality so I went with it. We had a great time, they were both extremely respectful of me and I am glad I experienced it, but now I feel like a total slut!

I have been hiding out at home, too embarrassed to show my face in case I run into these guys again. In the moment it felt great, so why am I being so weird about it now? How can I move past my feelings of guilt?

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