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DearSugar Needs your Help: Is the Passion Gone for Good?

DearSugar and Passionless Paula need your help. Although she has the most amazing boyfriend in the world, the passion is gone! Is there a way to save their relationship or should she cut her losses and find the excitement and intensity with another partner?

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I do believe I have the perfect boyfriend: he's sweet, beautiful, smart, funny, caring, understanding, he's everything a girl could wish for! But we've been together for more than 3 years now, and I have come to realize that I'm not physically attracted to him anymore, although he´s beautiful and has a really hot body! I know that this is a really common issue, and I've tried to work it out, but I just can't.

So, my question is, should I try even harder to make things work (even though I don't really feel like doing it) or should I just move on? I feel really horrible for thinking of leaving him just because the passion is gone, but on the other hand, I'm only 23 years old and I'd like a little more passion in my life. But again, he's really a wonderful boyfriend and I love him. Please help! I really don't know what to do here!


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