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Did He Just Like Me For the Sex

Group Therapy: Did He Just Want to Sleep With Me?

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I met this guy at a party and we connected over Facebook and bbm. We kept chatting for three months because he was traveling most of the time, but then even when he was in town I only saw him once a month because he said he was busy. We talked about the chemistry between us and about having sex, and I told him that I don't feel it's right now because I don't know him enough.

Although he disagreed with that because he felt that attraction between us is strong, he started making the effort more and we started going out more often. Then one time we just did it and had sex. The following days he didn't call and it happened that I caught an infection so I faced him. He got all angry and offended and said that he was clean. He acted like a jerk so I deleted him from Facebook and bbm. Later I knew that my infection was not caused by him so I tried to connect again with him and he didn't answer my messages. I am not sure if this guy liked me in the first place or was I just a hunt for a one-night stand (though it was a three-month hunt). Help?

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