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Did He Just Want Sex?

"Did He Just Want Sex?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

I met this amazing guy who showed lots of enthusiasm the night we met. He asked for my number and asked me out for dinner. It was amazingly set up and we had an awesome time. We later went to his apartment and we just kissed. He asked me if I'd like to see him again and I agreed. The following day he sent me a quick message later in the evening, cold in a way. Then he disappeared for two days and then asked me if I'd like to watch a movie at his place. I preferred that for a second date we meet outside, he agreed. Again it was amazing with lots of chemistry, we went to his apartment and kissed. This time he asked me to stay over for the night; I didn't feel that I'm ready to sleep with him yet. The third date was the same thing, he asks me to come over, then I told him that I am not ready to sleep with him. He was surprised and said that he felt that I wanted to but he doesn't know why I backed off.

Anyway, he said, "Don't stress about it, I totally understand." Then he disappeared. I felt bad cause he might have thought that I don't like him. I sent him a text asking if he'd like to join me and my friends for an event, he directly said yes. We met up that day for the event and he was such a gentleman, taking care of me, he took his jacket off and put it on my shoulders when it was cold, he was interested in my stories and asked questions about me. After the event we went back to my apartment and we kissed again, it was nice. He left, and didn't call me. It's been three days . . . Does he like me? Not enough? He just wanted sex? I don't get it.

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