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Did I Turn Him Off?

"Did I Turn Him Off?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

A week ago, I met up with a guy for drinks and we hit it off. He asked me immediately after for another date 3 days later. That date went very well, and he wanted to see me again 2 days afterward. We had a great time. He texted me the next night (this past Saturday), and said if I wasn't busy I should come hang with him. I told him I'd love to, but I was out with friends. I texted him briefly the next day (Sunday), but haven't had interaction since.

Is he not into me, or am I not giving him enough time to ask me out again, or what? I'm so burned by my last relationship and these "just not into you" books that I don't know what to think. I feel like I made the last move to interact (he did respond, BTW), so it's in his court. 

Another thing is, when we were together Friday, I got the sense that he's insecure about girls. Case in point, I handed him my empty glass and said "This is done" and he wheeled around with a pained look on his face, and said "Oh, I didn't know what you meant by 'this is done,'" as if I was referring to him and me! Thoughts?

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