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Do Tell: Do You Consider Yourself Difficult?

Some people are people pleasers by nature but others are naturally difficult to deal with. They believe it's their way or the highway and find it almost impossible to just go with the flow. I'll say that I fall somewhere in the middle: I never compromise my own beliefs, but I never go out of my way just to be burdensome. And sure, we've all had our moments, but ladies, do tell, would others consider you to be one of the difficult ones?

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emalove emalove 7 years
Nah, I'm pretty easygoing...although there are some things that bother me and I have no problem standing up for what I believe is right.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 7 years
Sometimes I'm difficult but only with my close friends and my husband. Everyone else sees the people pleaser side of me. I know when I'm being difficult but I always get my way so I do it anyway. I'm evil like that.
italianblonde italianblonde 7 years
I am the biggest people pleaser most of the time!!! The only times I'm difficult are when I'm tired or hungry because I get in the worst moods. But when I'm being difficult, I remember how terrible it is to be around my sister who is the WORST, and I stop.
Muirnea Muirnea 7 years
I think I'm difficult...like dear said: "I never compromise my own beliefs, but I never go out of my way just to be burdensome. The thing is though, I am very opinionated on anything that its possible to have an opinion on, and I really think about anything hard before I form my opinion, so I know its what I truly absolutely believe for very VERY good reasons...so that tends to leave very little compromising room on anything... So I end up being very difficult not because I try to be that way, but the way I think just kind of lends itself in that direction....lol...at least that's what I think. :-P :-D
Muirnea Muirnea 7 years
I think I'm difficult...like dear said: "I never compromise my own beliefs, but I never go out of my way just to be burdensome. The thing is though, I am very opinionated on anything that its possible to have an opinion on, and I really think about anything hard before I form my opinion, so I know its what I truly absolutely believe for very VERY good reasons...so that tends to leave very little compromising room on anything...So I end up being very difficult not because I try to be that way, but the way I think just kind of lends itself in that direction....lol...at least that's what I think. :-P :-D
northofantastic northofantastic 7 years
I'm really laid back, but not to the point of being a pushover. When I have something to say, I say it.
Jude-C Jude-C 7 years
I'm generally not difficult, but I can be very exacting and critical about some specific pet peeves.
Kristinh1012 Kristinh1012 7 years
I'm mostly a people pleaser, pushover. But I can have my times....my way or no way.
RustyAngel73 RustyAngel73 7 years
Depends, I can be anywhere from medium/average to difficult.
bbkf bbkf 7 years
I'm very very easygoing.
bbkf bbkf 7 years
I'm very very easygoing.
bigestivediscuit bigestivediscuit 7 years
I think I'm really difficult and spoiled!
random00b random00b 7 years
I tend to be my way or the highway. As I've aged, I figure out what I will and will not put up with...and the list is getting longer. I don't suffer fools at all and am vocal about that fact.
Blackwood Blackwood 7 years
When I said "it's really bad", I meant "it's really unfortunate". Just wanted to clear that out.Maybe it's time to go to bed already! hahaSorry!
Blackwood Blackwood 7 years
When I said "it's really bad", I meant "it's really unfortunate". Just wanted to clear that out. Maybe it's time to go to bed already! haha Sorry!
Blackwood Blackwood 7 years
It's really bad (in my view, at least) that you chose to say "I never go out of my way to be burdensome". Why would anyone do that? I'm quite a particularly difficult person, but it's definitely not something I "go out of my way" to do! Sometimes (very rarely, though, I must admit) I even wish I was more common, more simple, etc... I realize I'm not an easy person, but that doesn't mean I do it on purpose or even have a clue on how could I ever change it in case I wanted or was able to do so.
alliallialli alliallialli 7 years
I'm ALWAYS a people pleaser, and I hate it. If someone comes up and insults me, I'll probably agree with whatever they said just so they won't feel uncomfortable. It's my knee-jerk reaction, kinda sucks. I think my subconscious just hates confrontation.
green-eyed-grin green-eyed-grin 7 years
I'm very laid back and easy going. I have standards though, but I am not dogmatic or extremely convinced that I know everything. I like to put myself in other people's shoes and am very openminded about most things. And I am generally quiet about most things, I don't push my opionions on others.
K-is-For-Kait K-is-For-Kait 7 years
Under the right circumstances, I can be difficult. However, I'm aware of it and I make sure I only get difficult if there is a real reason to be that way. I'm not like a psycho who just gives everyone a hard time about everything I don't like, though I know a couple people like that.
Marci Marci 7 years
I don't think I'm difficult, but I'm nobody's pushover. I'm strong-minded and stick to my guns when something is important to me. But if it's no big deal, I'm easy breezy.
itsme3683 itsme3683 7 years
I don't know! I wouldn't be surprised if people saw me that way because I can be pretty stubborn, but I like to think that I'm pretty easygoing.
michelle-c42934 michelle-c42934 7 years
I'm a complete people pleaser with my friends, family and people I want to suck up to or impress. But I don't think I'd do anything that would compromise my own believes. But when I'm in charge I expect perfection, so I can probably be quite demanding.
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 7 years
im like u dear...i dont compromise my beliefs, otherwise im flexible
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 7 years
Yes I do, that's probably why I don't get asked on dates more often.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
I'm somewhere in the middle, too. Per my husband, I'm "medium maintenance."
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