Last night I was catching up with a girlfriend and our conversation went straight to her date from the previous week. They went out on Thursday night, had a great time, and kissed goodnight, but as of Monday, she still hadn't heard from him. After lamenting for a while, the inevitable question was asked: why didn't he call? Not only do I get asked this time and time again, but it's a simple question I ask my friends, too. Yet every time we all come up short. Who knows why he didn't call — it could be because he's busy or simply because he's not interested, but either way, no answer is good enough therefore the question remains. Does this pattern sound familiar? It's one of the most frustrating questions to ask and to answer, but do tell, do you do it anyway?