Women constantly write to me, asking why men aren't asking them out on dates. They tell me they are good looking, they are funny and smart, and they like to have a good time — sounds like a pretty great combo to me, yet they still aren't having any luck in the dating game. While I've given you all my advice, sometimes hearing why from your peers who are in the same boat can make all the difference in the world. That's why I've decided to turn the tables and ask all of you to answer the question for yourselves and for each other. So ladies, if you're ailing from a dating dry spell, do tell, why do you think the men aren't making the move?