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Do You Approve Of Women Dancing In A Sexy And Provocative Way?

Strippers, exotic dancers and porn stars alike all make their money from shaking their tail feathers seductively and scantily clad. They cause countless arguments in heterosexual relationships because their inflated chests and rock hard humps make regular women feel inferior and insecure.

On the other hand, they bring pleasure to countless men and some women who enjoy watching nature's art in a mature and constrained way. These women provide healthy fantasy, escape and entertainment in a harmless manner for a short period of time. How do you feel about women dancing in a sexy and provocative way?

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SevenOver SevenOver 9 years
I don't have a problem with strippers or exotic dancers. And I really don't get the whole "it's demeaning to women" argument. Ever seen how men act when a nearly naked woman is dancing around a pole? Fools...stumbling over themselves, giving away their money...THEY should feel demeaned for being so easily led by the sight of bare breasts.
bluejeanie bluejeanie 9 years
cuba, i agree with you there. i hate the words sl*t and wh*re. i hate the fact that words that have been used to hold women down for ages are used mostly by other women. ugh.
jennifer76 jennifer76 9 years
This is one of those really sticky issues. Do I have a philosophical issue with it? No. Do I want my daughter doing it? No. :?
t0xxic t0xxic 9 years
Jess yes that doesnt make sense. I think Im still pretty old fashioned though I really just feel he has NO business looking at anyone but me, but I also have self confidence issues of my own so I just couldnt handle it.
cubadog cubadog 9 years
I also consider myself a feminist and I also don't have a problem with it. There is something called free will and you can what you want with your body. I do think the industry could be better regulated as it is in Amsterdam. It think it is more tragic that they are called and assumed to be sluts and whores. No one lives there life and whose to say if you were not in the same position as some of the women that chose this as their profession that you would not do it! I am the first to admit that if had the body that a lot of the women had I would do it for a night. As for my BF watching who cares he comes home to me and has sex with me. Honestly, we all have fanticize and get turned on by normal porn but then again what really is normal?
JessNess JessNess 9 years
Im kind of weird about porn. I understand why a lot of women do not like porn. But I think there is something to say about watching it with your man. Not hardcore porn but there are a lot of couples that watch it together to get in the mood. However it shouldnt get to the point where your guy HAS to watch it to get in the mood. Does that make sense
mmmmmm mmmmmm 9 years
I'm often very torn about this because I definitely consider myself a pretty hard core feminist but I really don't have a problem with it. I also feel like if we would allow these things to come out into the open and stop making them fetishes them then there could be more power for women in these industries because they could be more successfully regulated.
t0xxic t0xxic 9 years
My best friend is a stripper and though I dont agree with it, it makes her money an keeps her in shape. Thats all fine and dandy for her. HOWEVER for me its not. I dont approve of it I dont want my husband looking at porn or strippers or any other women and I dont want to either. My body is for him and if he wants me to dance like a little hooker slut thats fine Ill do whatever to please him but he is not to look at other women and if he does he can hit the road.
JessNess JessNess 9 years
oops I reread it. Ok strippers, porn stars etc dancing hmmmm. I dont know. Strippers are pretty athletic. Have you seen some of the things they do on poles. Nah what am I talking about they are just objectfing there bodies. What makes me mad is Im going to college to get my degree but I will never make as much money as a stripper does in one night
JessNess JessNess 9 years
I think there is a differnce between dancing sexy and dancing like a wh*re like a lot of women do today. People are basically having sex on the dance floor nowadays. Hip shaking is alright but layoff on the grinding
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