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First Date Backup Plans

Do You Have a First Date Backup Plan?

From asking the right questions to ensuring the night doesn't dry out, we know just about all the first-date dos and don'ts. But sometimes the best-laid dates go all wrong.

My friend asked me to show up at a bar where she was chugging through a first date this weekend. With reluctant daters scheduling mid-date texts and phone calls, she's hardly the first person to map her exit out. In fact, the tactic is so popular it's a wonder anyone gets away with it! But the point isn't to be believed but to escape semi-gracefully, so I suppose it works.

What about you? Do you plan an escape route before the night begins?

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amber512 amber512 5 years
Exactly what I was thinking totygoliguez.
Studio16 Studio16 5 years
My English teacher junior year told all us girls to have back up plans for dates. Turns out she walked out on a man over dinner cause "he was annoying." They wound up getting married.
totygoliguez totygoliguez 5 years
I just don't get it. Why would you go out on a date if you think it is going to go badly?
Pistil Pistil 5 years
I had a friend who lied about her friend giving birth in order to get out of a date. She had the guy drop her off at the hospital and called another friend to come pick her up. I've never needed an escape plan, but some people do I guess.
stephley stephley 5 years
I've never had a date go so badly I wanted to walk away - maybe people should be a little more picky before going out.
onlysourcherry onlysourcherry 5 years
No, but I have had to call a friend to pick me up when my date got too drunk to drive me home. I just told him a friend had an emergency and was coming to get me.
dexaholic dexaholic 5 years
Yeah, why would you accept a date if you know it's going to go badly? If that's the case, just say no!
skigurl skigurl 5 years
I never have, but I never went on any dates that I anticipated would go badly, either. I haven't been on tons of dates with guys I don't know well (usually I'll know them if we go out, or I'll begin dating a guy without having to do the awkward first date thing), and for my past 2 serious bf's (including my current love), I've had real first dates but I was super excited about them and knew they would be great, so no need for a bail-out. If I'm not excited, I'm not going to go...that's my philosophy.
skigurl skigurl 5 years
I never have, but I never went on any dates that I anticipated would go badly, either. I haven't been on tons of dates with guys I don't know well (usually I'll know them if we go out, or I'll begin dating a guy without having to do the awkward first date thing), and for my past 2 serious bf's (including my current love), I've had real first dates but I was super excited about them and knew they would be great, so no need for a bail-out. If I'm not excited, I'm not going to go...that's my philosophy.
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