My ex downgraded our relationship severely from bf/gf to dating to friends with benefits, and because I was so busy with grad school, I allowed it (and yes, there's my low self-esteem). I am now done with grad school, and he still wants to be FWB . . . But now he wants to be FWB that don't hang out or talk. He said the only thing we should talk about is where, when, and at what time.
He told me he will give me time to think about it, but I already know my answer. I don't exactly know how to tell him that I don't want this. He doesn't read my messages, and I want him to get the hint without me being bothered.
Any help would be appreciated.